Avoid common "bling abuse" mistakes..
The Holidays are almost here and for many of us that means on top of our busy shopping schedules we're trying to get our outfits organized for office parties and family get together occasions. It also is the time of year when we are hauling out jewelry that has been neglected for 11 months!!! Tarnish (gasp!), yellowing (ahhh!), and things that have gotten loose from being shoved around in the jewelry box all summer, it is all there! Oh my what a mess we have! So what do we do to get that fresh from the pages of the jewelry catalog look? Proper storage and cleaning are the answer.

First of all we need to remember that identification stamps and tags are everything in deciding how to clean things. Sterling silver and gold are specifically marked with a number from 10-24 KT and .925 or the word "sterling". They will have special cleaning agents that will remove tarnish and restore luster. Anything that is plated or filled needs a different kind of care. Plate stamps will have an extra letter or two in the stamping like this "14KTGF" which is a sign of electroplating. Second please remember that stones in your jewelry have different kinds of polish and finishes that can be destroyed rather quickly in cleaning agents. This is true even if the metals go unharmed. Read your labels and tags before you accidentally turn your treasures into trash!
Metals 101
Real gold and diamonds are about the only combination that you can safely clean in a gold cleaning agent. Silver agents are much harsher than gold cleaners and should only clean silver, copper, brass and diamonds. Be careful as silver polish and silver cleaning agents can strip enamel from sterling charms and colors from dyed copper. Some newer products are formulated for mixed materials but you need to READ those labels carefully. Sterling should be stamped .925 or .950, but beware that jewelry bought in some foreign countries is plated, and should be tested for metal purity before immersing in an agent even if it is stamped. - If it is attracted to a magnet, you know it is not pure.
Below is an example of a ring that is stamped sterling silver, but had gold plating. It was immersed by the owner for cleaning by the stone prongs and the plating came off. The silver now has no luster because it was not buffed or rhodium plated as high shine sterling often is. Note how the prongs are a different shade and the bottom of the band has no luster. This is the result of Tarnex use by someone without any knowledge of jewelry care. The silver scrap value is the same but the eye appeal is seriously compromised.

For the best success with cleaning plated metals, get a a silver polish cloth and try to keep methods of cleaning DRY to prevent oxidization of the metals. Also storing these kinds of jewelry in a baggie with a piece of chalk will help to keep your treasures around much longer! Don't mix your metals. Metals oxidize at different rates, but mixing them during storage makes the process happen much faster! This is especially true for metals that are of different ages. Sort them by type before storage. Copper will often patina faster than many other metals.

Remember that wetness and water are the enemy here! While most people remove rings before doing dishes or cleaning the house, they forget to care for bracelets, which need to be taken off as well. The only exception of course are medic alert bracelets, don't take them off. Removal in jewelry care is not the only important factor, where they end up is important too. Don't store jewelry in the bathroom drawers or in your car ashtray, ever! Changes in air moisture are high in places like this due to showering and humidity changes. Keep your stuff in something that has the ability to let moisture out but not invite it in. 3M makes special tabs that can be placed in boxes and containers that will slow the tarnishing process. Little silica bags from your meds or shoe boxes can work great too.
A little side note - Human sweat is also a silent killer for costume pieces because we don't think about how it effects our jewelry! Wiping off all of your chains with a dry cloth before you put them away will add many uses for plated jewelry. Also remember that you can prolong finish on jewelry by opting not to wear it when the dog days of summer are here, because you are guaranteed to be sweaty. Opt for wood, shells, and organics instead.
Claspology 101
A good clasp, or lack there of, can be the deal breaker for me in jewelry. Anything that has signs of thin plating or poor quality is off the table. Spending more for a sterling clasps and gold filled clasps can greatly improve the life of your costume pieces. Clasps have the most contact with the skin and often catch the most accidental moisture contact. Spacers that are smaller than stones will often last 3 - 4 times longer than the clasps.
When you wash your hands at a public place, stick your wrists under the hand dryers for a moment to try to keep your bracelets and clasps dry. Also if you are doing anything during winter, remember we often get snow up the sleeves of our coats. It is best to stick your bracelets in your purse until after you have cleared your windows or shoveled your walk.
Stone Stuff
Stones are beautiful! They enhance the texture and allure of our jewelry, but like all things precious they need special care. Many stones are coated to increase the shine and to remove roughness that can cause snagging on clothes. It is suggested that you do not immerse stones, pearls, shells, woods, or any organics into jewelry cleaning solutions. Diamonds are the only real stone that you can immerse (although many CZ's are considered safe it is still a risk where colorfastness is concerned). Only one moment in these chemicals will completely destroy many stones that have a low Mohs hardness. I often use a little bit of Ivory brand liquid dish soap and a soft tooth brush to gently clean around prongs and crevices of stone jewelry. If I need to have something nasty taken off the band that will not polish off, I use a q-tip and sparingly put Tarnex on the band, remembering that there is still a huge risk in doing so.
A Tahitian man taught me a trick to preserve mother of pearl and pearls when they are worn often. Rub them with a tiny amount of baby oil before wear. It keeps the luster high and protects finish from damage.
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